Let my d6 vidchat wife this morning before school.
If this wasn't a D6-initiated vidchat, I hope you are negotiating for yourself equal vidchat time.
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I overheard wife mention some money that d6 needed to take in. I let my wife know I was there and asked to confirm what was needed. Her: I'm talking to d6 not you!
lol. Painful but good lesson to mind boundaries and butt out of her parenting.
Originally Posted by JDevast
I continue to have conflicting thoughts about wanting to reach out and offer her an olive branch.
If by olive branch, you mean respecting her right to parent during her time, being courteous and polite during interactions, and working out equal deals that's wonderful!
If you mean placating to avoid conflict, say no!
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While committed to change long term, I am very much struggling with the immediate situation and fear I am losing her more everyday.
You do seem far apart, and not likely to magically resolve in 1-3 months. Any hope seems longer-term.