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Re: His Midlife Crisis ... An Explanation job #2767207 11/02/17 06:37 PM
Joined: Dec 2012 Posts: 2,202 US B BrightFuture Member
BrightFuture Member B Joined: Dec 2012 Posts: 2,202 US	Good read! Thanks for bumping this up, job! I needed it today. M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state

Re: His Midlife Crisis ... An Explanation BrightFuture #2767209 11/02/17 08:16 PM
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bttrfly Member B Joined: Jun 2015 Posts: 6,123 Likes: 411 New England	this made me cry like I haven't cried in months. so sad and so true and yes, Cadet, YEARS if ever. M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16 "Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver

Re: His Midlife Crisis ... An Explanation job #2767239 11/03/17 03:06 AM
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Cadet Member C Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 13,554 Likes: 89 NY	Originally Posted By: job How are you? You've not visited in a while. Any pearls of wisdom for the folks who are here? After 46 days and nights of no food in North Vietnam, the will to survive is strong. Read the Stockdale paradox certainly being here on DB - may be your defining moment in life, do not ignore your brutal reality and remember that you will prevail in the end. Me-70, D37,S36

Re: His Midlife Crisis ... An Explanation Cadet #2767242 11/03/17 03:14 AM
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LanceSijan Member L Joined: Jul 2010 Posts: 843 North Vietnam	Originally Posted By: Cadet Originally Posted By: job How are you? You've not visited in a while. Any pearls of wisdom for the folks who are here? After 46 days and nights of no food in North Vietnam, the will to survive is strong. Read the Stockdale paradox certainly being here on DB - may be your defining moment in life, do not ignore your brutal reality and remember that you will prevail in the end. I couldnt have said it any better - thanks Cadet!

Re: His Midlife Crisis ... An Explanation LanceSijan #2873040 11/23/19 12:06 AM
Joined: Jan 2000 Posts: 28,358 Likes: 165 job OP Member
OP job Member Joined: Jan 2000 Posts: 28,358 Likes: 165	Bumping this up for newbies. Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.

Re: His Midlife Crisis ... An Explanation job #2873464 11/26/19 10:11 PM
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roist Member R Joined: Apr 2015 Posts: 1,654	Thanks Job R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together

Re: His Midlife Crisis ... An Explanation job #2877671 12/26/19 04:07 PM
Joined: Dec 2019 Posts: 15 Likes: 1 R Rushton New Member
Rushton New Member R Joined: Dec 2019 Posts: 15 Likes: 1	Wow. It's eye-opening how much of myself, and my own MLC, I saw through reading that article. It was spot on. Where was it published? Edited to add: Never mind, found it: Last edited by job; 12/26/19 04:15 PM. Reason: Removed link to another site not related to DB

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