My only caution oz is be careful thinking you've arrived. Many a LBS has thought they were 100% detached, and then when their WAS started dating someone, etc.....the detachment came crashing down. Stay diligent on your GAL and 180s. Detachment ebbs and flows. It is okay, just keep working on it.
So true. I thought I was detached about 9 months after BD. Then after a year I thought "wow, I really wasn't detached back then even though I thought I was. But now I really am." Then 3 months later, found myself saying that again. Then 3 months later.... yeah it continued for quite a while. You know how to tell when you're really detached? You don't even talk about it. Your posts are filled with all the GAL stuff you're doing and how much you're enjoying life with no mention of detachment or dropping the rope. You don't say you are, you just are.
