Still married couple from Scandinavia

[BenB]

Thank you Newlife! I think it was Steve who recommended this a while ago but I think everyone should read Intimacy & Desire by Dr.David Schnarch. That book has helped me tremendously these past few months. I´m reading it a second time now which I´ve never done with a book before!

Earlier today I had to contact W since rent was due and she hadn´t wired it to me yet. Instead of the usual Facebook messenger I emailed to remind her it was due. She responded that she´ll wire it now with a smiley emoji.

I decided to respond with the email below. I know it was a bit long but after finding out about the missed appointments, I decided I will deduct those costs(about 140 USD per therapy session) from her settlement money. As you can see, I didn´t make it clear to her that I will do just that, I´ll let her find out the day she asks for the money. Also, so you understand what I´m referring to, she has several boxes of her things in my apartment still as her place is too small to fit all her things.

Any input is welcome

"ok good. So you have two more rents to pay before you need to move out. In January, I will send your things to a storage room as close to you as possible. The sooner you get them from there the better for you as it´s quite expensive. I have a list of all the deductions to be made from the money I agreed to pay you, including the recent ones.

Please remember that by Feb 28 latest the apartment needs to be empty, unless you can move out sooner. You can then send the keys to me that day with any delivery service.

She hasn´t responded to that. Not yet at least.