No, by stbxw I mean soon to be ex wife so we will be divorced by mid April next year if I still want to proceed with it. And I most certainly will proceed with the divorce.

Thanks, you´re right. And I´ve thought about that too. In a weird way, I felt sorry for the guy I saw with her. If he´s fallen for her, I have a feeling he´s in for a rude awakening at some point.


Me: 38
Stbxw: 35
No kids
Mini bd: February 6, 2019
ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019
Told her to move out: September 8, 2019
W moved out: September 28, 2019
Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019