Originally Posted by BenB
I am considering emailing her to say that I got her the apartment so we wouldn´t run in to each other and that she should honor that agreement. Would that be bad?


I agree with LI, don't bother. You want to leave her with the impression that you don't care. Don't cross the street to avoid her, don't comment on who she's hanging out with. If you say something then she'll think "oh yeah, he's still Plan B" but if you don't say anything it'll make her wonder why you don't care anymore. "Is he seeing someone? Has he really forgotten me already? Has he moved on?" I wouldn't be surprised if she finds an excuse to contact you soon if you remain silent.

Quote
I found out that she missed two appointments and cancelled them the same day which means I will get charged for those.


Unbelievable. There's really no end to her disrespect.

Quote
I told the therapist that I won´t be paying for her anymore so if she calls again, please tell her that.


PERFECT. No need for you to say anything to W, let the therapist handle it.

Quote
Clear to me that she is not dealing with her emotions, she is running away from them and seeing this guy instead.


Probably so. That's just going to prevent her from doing the growth that she needs to do. But that's her journey, you tried to help, now it's all on her.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57