I will have the kids with my family. Unclear where she will be. She said she has two invites from family, along with some "other invites" to consider. I don't know where she is going, and I really don't care. We are telling the kids she will be with her family for a change, as she has missed out many years always coming to my family. This will fly for Thanksgiving, but Christmas will be much tougher to navigate. One at a time I guess.
