... Just a moment ago, I was walking to a café near me to get a double espresso as I often do. On my way I walked by a guy and a girl walking in to another café near me. I turned around and noticed it was my stbxw ...
Is she an officially an XW now? Or is that just how you mentally view her. Just curious because that's how I'm mentally referring to mine now.
Originally Posted by BenB
I am considering emailing her to say that I got her the apartment so we wouldn't run in to each other and that she should honor that agreement. Would that be bad? ...
Don't bother, it just shows that she got to you. Detach further.
Similarly, I ran into my WW and her OM at a club, and just said "hey", and continued to enjoy night after getting my emotions in check. Not going to let someone else impact my enjoyment of life.
Originally Posted by BenB
... Clear to me that she is not dealing with her emotions, she is running away from them and seeing this guy instead.
Sounds like my WW. Not surprised... I suggested that she go see an IC on her own, and she never bothered looking into it. They don't think there is anything wrong with them, or have any sense remorse yet to want to work on themselves / relationship.
Fine by me if she wants to continue her life like this. I hope she carries her baggage and issues into her next relationship.
