Still married couple from Scandinavia

[BenB]

Thank you AS,

I am considering emailing her to say that I got her the apartment so we wouldn´t run in to each other and that she should honor that agreement. Would that be bad?

I have a feeling this is the guy she had here at our place and if this is the case, he is married. But I´m not sure this is the case.

Also, I went to see my therapist just now. I had told W that if she wants to see one, she can go to see mine and I will pay for that(as you probably remember) but today I found out that she missed two appointments and cancelled them the same day which means I will get charged for those. After she missed the second one, she said she doesn´t have time to go to therapy at this time so she didn´t schedule a new appointment. I told the therapist that I won´t be paying for her anymore so if she calls again, please tell her that.

Clear to me that she is not dealing with her emotions, she is running away from them and seeing this guy instead.