Still married couple from Scandinavia

[BenB]

Thank you Newlife, I needed to hear that and it already feels better today. I´ve been feeling anger about this and still do. I paid for a new apartment for her on a completely different side of the area we live in so that we wouldn´t run into each other. That was our agreement. Then she decides to bring her new dude to a café 2 minutes walk from where I live.

Considering it was 11 am on a Sunday it sure wasn´t a blind date. It´s most likely someone she spent the night with. There are dozens of cafés near her new apartment. There´s absolutely no reason for her to go to this one.

But yeah, the upside is I think you are right. It will help me detach even more, knowing she has zero respect for me.

I´m so sorry you had to hear that about W! I just read your thread and that pisses me off! But glad to hear you are taking it the right way. You deserve better than this.