So I ended up going yesterday for brunch . H was clearly upset that I wasn’t going to attend . He was very understanding but really wanted me to go and not do things apart . First time in months I’ve seen him frustrated at something I would or wouldn’t do . H amped up his time with me and has been really trying to make amends . Time is my love language. He knows this .I saw this as an olive branch from him so I took it . I have to give a little .The line by me was clearly drawn though . I said hello and goodbye . Kept to myself and only spoke to people who had no part in anything . Overall it was a good time and some quality time with H. I didn’t speak with his sister even though she tried . I was nice but just moved along .