I'll have to come back to you tomorrow as I'm jammed at the moment. Tonight maybe if I get time! Sorry
I haven't said my thoughts about your H because you are here to bust your divorce, and the principles we members stick to is not to bash the H or W. I'll do so though if that's what you want and if it helps.
Stay strong at changeover - cover yourself in a protective shield of 'calm' energy, ok. There ain't nuthin' tougher in the world than a single mum getting s$#t done!
Me: early 40's XW: nearly 50 T: 15 M: 5 BD: Jan 19 S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24