I think what really bugged you was his lack of communication or caring about other’s schedules.
Expectations dear girl. Expectations.
You are right, DnJ. It's the lack of respect and consideration, as well. The way he brushed past me and totally ignored me when he entered my home with no recognition of what he had done or the impact on me or S1. Sigh. Is it too much to expect basic decency from MLCers?
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It is possible that H was purposefully being late to get a rise out of you. Hmmmmm. And they do know what buttons to push. I suspect that when looking at this in that possible light you may not feel quite so guilty.
As I mentioned, he is routinely late. The first few times he would message or call in advance and I'd say thanks for letting me know. Sometimes he would say he slept in, there was traffic, or even "I have no excuse". It happened so frequently I didn't bother to address it, and he stopped letting me know, or apologising when he eventually arrived. I should have set stronger boundaries at the beginning, but I was worried about being seen as uptight or controlling over 5-10 minutes of tardiness. Double sigh.
