I think it may be my competitive nature. I know she will not leave me or divorce me so I’m deciding to wait this out. I’ve contacted a lawyer and paid the retainer. She knows I do not agree with this relationship. She knows that our family is most important.
She will have to take another job and we have discussed moving away and starting a new life in a different town. I guess it could always be worse. If she was mean and hateful then I would already have filed. She has no future with this guy and she is only holding onto pure fantasy. Heck she won’t even go out in public right now because she is ashamed and embarrassed. She has been isolated by all of her family and has nobody to turn to for support.
In time I believe she will get through this and realize what it has potentially cost her. I have been praying and I know that God has a plan for me in all of this. As long as she is honest with me then we can move forward. That honesty may lead us to divorce or it may lead us to a better relationship. All I know for certain is that we are a long way from starting over. This is what it will take. Starting over and learning to love each other again.
Eventually she will have to come to terms with her actions and take responsibility for her choices. I can not find robxs post. Site only allows me to search past 3 months.
