NewLife I do understand how hard this is. My XW in her first affair use to ask me to run errands on the weekend to get me out of the house. She would then invite OM over and make D (she was almost 3 at the time) go to her room so OM and XW could mess around in our living room naked.

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I tried to get her family involved

This pretty much never works.

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she treats me like I'm just the dog crap under her shoe

It has taken me a long time to realize, but yes, that is how they view us. She has zero respect for you. She does not see you as a husband, man, or even a human being right now.

The best thing to do is detach, GAL, work on yourself improvement, and be the most amazing dad in the world when you have your son.


Last edited by rooskers; 11/25/19 03:14 AM.

1st BD December 26, 2008
PA admitted to by XW December 29, 2008

2nd BD May 23, 2019
Daughter confirms EA
Divorce Finalized July 18, 2019