The point is she doesn’t want a divorce. She says she can’t imagine divorcing me. However, she also says she can’t imagine ever not speaking to the OM again. She doesn’t want to sell the house right now.

What will eventually have to happen is I will have to file and she will have to come to the table to come up with our agreements. She is so wayward that I can’t hardly talk to her without being mean or getting into a shouting match. This is what it has come too.