Do you think it's reached a stage where you contact your L and have your L write to H about ongoing arrangements for S pending the Orders - essentially if H wants a variation he goes through your L. That will take the pressure off you immensely.
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I see you have reservations about co parenting, and rightfully so. Make sure your L has spoken to you about sole and joint parental responsibility. Perhaps H needs PPP H, factored into the orders?
Documenting is good, but just bear in mind that if you just document, but don't 'do anything' about it at the time, it could be worthless longer term in the event of going to Court. Again, your L ought to be informed so as to advise you about what steps you can take with H to cement and address these ongoing issues.
I really don't know what to do, DS. He makes me feel like I'm not being cool, relaxed, chill enough if I mention the repeated late arrivals/dropoffs. It feels very serious to put it in writing through solicitors. My perspective may be warped, though. I was shaking after this morning's confrontation. I'm still terrified of being seen as rocking the boat.
I just did some reading on sole parental responsibility. I don't know if I have grounds to file for that, even though it would make things easier. It sounds like a complicated process. I'm hoping to stay out of court altogether. I will look into Triple P programs to see if that might help.
