Hey Dan

I'd avoid saying things like 'you need to' becuase that comes off as controlling. Perhaps just use "Please attach...."

Also avoid things like "You can put that towards your own sofa..." for similar reasons. SHe can do what she wants with the money

Get her to send it straight to your L.

Avoid saying you're at the gym. My go to is just "I'm out and about at the moment"

Avoid "Hope". Just say "Have a good one/week" etc. Sounds more decisive

Good to hear gym and everythign else is going well. Smash those castanets!

Cheers DS


Me: early 40's
XW: nearly 50
T: 15
M: 5
BD: Jan 19
S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24