Just venting now. Co-parenting is impossible with this man! He cannot or will not communicate. I have no desire to be the dictator when it comes to S1 but he forces me into that position. Our son is a BABY and there is a minimum level of communication required between parents.
He has never once asked for information about S1 that might affect his time with him - how is he feeling, is he unwell, has he slept, does he need to eat etc. He also never volunteers information that I should reasonably know as the custodial parent - he tripped and scraped his knee today, he didn't nap well, he threw up after lunch etc. I share information with him as required - he needs to see a doctor, I'm taking him for a haircut, he needs milk for daycare etc.
It boggles the mind. Everyone has accepted the relationship is over, so let's move on and do the best thing for our child. What does he gain from making that process harder?
How hard would it have been for him to call me from the car once he realised he would be 15 minutes late this morning? Is there some pathological need to create conflict with me? I feel like I'm going crazy.
