Assuming she is actually meeting with her parents, I agree with what that likely means. She has used the “meeting my parents” excuse before.
If it weren’t for the kids, I’d be almost okay with this. I’ve lost my feelings for her to a degree during detachment. But when I see my kids hurting because of her decisions/selfishness, it’s going to be difficult for me to not hate her. Recon after that seems next to impossible.