To be honest with you it doesn’t matter. Keep it short and have her pick up your dry cleaning if you want. My ex was famous for asking me if I wanted coffee so I accepted because I love coffee.
I am going to be honest with you. The talk with the parents who are anti D means there is probably no turning back.
The good news is it doesn’t really matter because recon if it happens is likely years away. Also, your W respects you so that is a must for recon. Feel free to ask me any questions because your sitch is very similar to mine.
I feel for you man and I promise you it does get easier.
