You just never know how and when the stupidity will come.
My S4 has dental surgery in mid-December and it just so happens to fall on "her week" and I don't know the exact time and date so I texted her on Monday asking some other child-related items and she replied promptly. So then I asked when his dental surgery was and informed her I would like to be there since he is going under anesthesia. Never got a response from her.
A few days later, her mother texts me and informs me that she would be going with my W & S4 to the dental surgery so there is no need for me to go because my W thinks it would be too confusing to see both of us there at the same time. I replied back that I was his father and I wanted to be there in case something happens because of the anesthesia. That this is how co-parenting works and that I will forever be his father but cannot help that she no longer wants to be my W. I informed her that if it was too much for them, I would just handle it myself. She replied back "No, we can all just go".
The fact of the matter is he is on my insurance to begin with. I understand it is "her week" but the D has not even been filed as far as I know.. So we are still just as married as we were 6 months ago. Did I handle this correctly or incorrectly?
A few days later, my S4 starts talking about bed-time and he told me that he stayed at AP's house the other night with my W and actually slept in between both of them. I mean some people have told me they don't introduce new partners until so many months after the divorce is finalized and all of that, and my S4 is already sleeping in the bed with my W's AP. Man. If you had told me 4 months ago that this would be my life I would say "NO %#$@ing WAY!" (P.S.: I confirmed that he did indeed stay at AP's house because he carries an iPad with him between both of our houses and it was at AP's house from 11/16 11AM - 11/17 12PM.)
I mean -- I understand the whole detachment thing from your spouse, but how do you handle issues such as this?
