Thanks G....I am still learning and the DR/I have a ways to go but it is nice.
L - No, I couldn't have prevented it. In some ways I am glad that she just cut me off at the knee caps. Not sure I will ever understand why she didn't want to work on it together with counseling, etc. in the end it just wasn't met to be.
I agree, most where destined to happen. You just here a lot of stories of depression, messed up childhoods, etc. etc. that certainly make it very difficult to have a long lasting R. I know in my own my XW was never consistent emotionally, I never knew what I was going to get. It got worse the older she got as well.
