I'm not saying you did anything wrong. And made a bad decision for her to not stay over night or asking her to stay after wards.
My point was your message was confusing. In one statement you telling her she couldn't stay in another one you asking her too stay to chill afterwards. If I was her I would feel confused.
It's doesn't get easier, you just become more knowledgeable, and better in control of self.
The faster you learn how to separate your emotions from you W reactions, the better you are able to deal with each interaction.
Onward and upward
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.