H suggested I call and hash it out nicely with them . That is not me nor will it ever be . The line was clearly drawn by them when they all thought he was SO right for getting up and leaving . Now I just won’t even address them . I’m not mad or angry. Let’s just say completely detached
Exactly!
It would make things a lot easier on your H if you and his sister just sorted things out, wouldn't it?!
I think being detached is the right approach also. It leaves open the possibility for his sister to extend an olive branch. If not, well, so be it. Detaching is basically the textbook way to deal with difficult people.
