I thought I was setting some boundaries for myself (I don't want her staying over if she's in the other bedroom) and I didn't see that as weak behaviour. But at the same time I was open to hanging out with her after he went to bed. I guess I didn't want her thinking she could come and go as she pleases - and looking back if I just let it be we would have enjoyed a nice evening and woke up to look after our son...no big deal.
It's tricky navigating this part of the process...as LH said I need to a point where I don't give a fuch if she spends time with me or not.
H 37 W 31 S 2
T: 7 M: 4
BD 12/18 Separated 2/19 Living back together 04/06/2019 W Moved out again 07/15/2019
