He asked a few questions . Things were said to me when we first split about an older child I have from my first marriage . Mainly his sister said harsh and unkind things about him . He’s 15 and H had almost raised him with me . H was unaware that they were said to me up until yesterday.The things said about myself I can let go but not a child . H suggested I call and hash it out nicely with them . That is not me nor will it ever be . The line was clearly drawn by them when they all thought he was SO right for getting up and leaving . Now I just won’t even address them . I’m not mad or angry. Let’s just say completely detached smile