Well, you certainly have come a long way. I remember when what interested you in women were ones who played games. Who made you chase or had a challenge like herpes or something.
I think it’s great you have found love in someone who doesn’t play games, who doesn’t chase or need you to chase them. Consistently is very attractive too. Very happy for the two of you.

And sure, if my ex H wasn’t a Duck, we probably could have been happy together. If he valued and respected me, we would have made a great couple. But he didn’t. And I certainly couldn’t change that. I could only change what I accepted, but that didn’t mean that would change how he treated me