Scout's QLC journey

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I had cancer a year after BD1. I had all these bags hanging off me that had to be drained and he did it the first day but then I looked at his phone and saw he had been texting OW while I was on the operating table under the screen name,"My Secret Other Wife." I told him he couldn't help me with anything if he was doing that and he told me it had been over with her but he was so scared when I was in surgery that he wrote to her because she was his only friend. He agreed it wasn't right and said he would end it again.

I don't think H ever even made me a cup of tea, and I was back to cooking for the kids two days after my mastectomy, back at work at the biz we shared after two weeks and he had done nothing there while I was gone.

Now it's five years since cancer. He seemed to be coming out of it in 2017 but then he filed last year and the same OW is leaving her H for him and helping pay for his apt since he has convinced everyone that he shouldn't have to work more than 6 hours a week.

NOTHING CAN WAKE THEM UP. Back pain?! Not even cancer!!!