Been gal-ing more last few weeks. Going out a minimum of 2-3 times a week. W stays at house with S11. Earlier today, she asked if I wanted her to make a pie to bring to my family’s celebration on Thanksgiving ( w is revered for her baking skills and people look forward to it). I just said, “No, we’re all set thank you.” Odd thing to ask, given our sitch, but I understand she’s in a strange place.