Originally Posted by LH19
Sorry Jim I don’t agree. They are affected sure. Traumatized and psychologically damaged are too strong of words.

Also children brought up in homes of high conflict are just as affected.


Nothing is an absolute. Some kids are relatively unaffected. Some are traumatized and psychologically damaged. I dated a girl when I was young that was traumatized and psychologically damaged from her parents D, including her mother's A and leaving for the OM. And her dad's subsequent remarrying. So it can happen.

But I also agree that children brought up in high conflict homes are just as affected.

Marital problems, whether it results in the end of the marriage or not, has an affect on the kids. From relatively minor.....up to and including traumatizing and psychological damaging.


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