When my daughter was young, I would play this game. I would try to hold on to her and she would pull away. I would start chasing her and she would run away.
I also played another game. She would come over looking for a hug, and I would push her away. What do you think she did? She tried harder to get me to hug her.
This dynamic plays over and and in relationships. Have fun playing the game.
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