Things do start getting confusing. Normally around thanksgiving, I have to clarify like this:
This is my understanding of this years exceptions:
20th 6pm. Normal exchange. 23rd 6pm I drop the kids off at your house. They spend XMAS-even with you. 24th 6pm You drop kids off at my house. They spend Xmas day with me. 25th 6pm I drop kids off at your house. They spend boxing day with you. 26th 6pm You drop kids off 27th 6pm. normal exchange.
Try to nail down a specific exchange time. Try to minimize # of exchanges.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712