[may22]

Well, I definitely don't think you need to rush into any decisions. He's the one that caused all of this and it would be nice if he worked on a solution!

Was it today you guys had the first MC appointment? Hoping that went/goes well and maybe this can be something you discuss with the therapist? Do you feel secure/far along enough in your R/piecing that you can tell him how you feel about it? Eventually, you'll need to be able to tell him this kind of stuff and he will need to take responsibility for his part in creating the situation, and help find a solution... not sure if you're there quite yet but feels like you are bearing the brunt of his decision to badmouth you to his friends/family, and he should really be the one to come up with a solution (which might be doing your own holiday this year!!)