JD,

I agree with AS. There is a balance on doing what is right for your kids and dealing with W.

As far as your draft. Way too many words.Try to simplify it now.

Also address future years.

"This year, BLABLABLA" "Next year, the reverse will occur"



I would focus hard on making as little exceptions as possible and make them as simple as possible. The less exchanges the better.

Focus on these now:
One parent gets Xmas-eve,the other gets xmas day
One parent gets boxing day, One parent gets NYE

Deal with these later:
One parent gets thanksgiving day the other gets Friday
One parent gets Halloween the other gets a different holiday
Birthdays


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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