So the current agreement agreed between us (that she proposed btw) is a week with her, a week with me, exchange happens on Friday at school pick up. No thanksgiving in the UK.
Worth mentioning I sent a co parenting plan proposal over a week ago, with no response other than she needs to get advice. She proposed a co parenting schedule app where we can put in kids appointments etc and request exceptions.
She has dictated every move so far, has always been the driver in big decisions and I have been passive and placated her. Obviously this led to passive aggressive behaviour on my part. Her losing respect, becoming more dominant and accusing me of being controlling whenever she didn't get her way.
It's incredibly frustrating, I do love her deeply. But yeah crazy making
I fully expect any attempt on my part to be assertive or maintain some self respect to be met with a tornado spewed at me.
