Re: your proposals for Christmas I've had some time to think about it and as kids are scheduled to be with me that week I feel it is better that we keep to that arrangement with the children sleeping at mine but with the exception that they see you on Christmas eve, Christmas lunch and a walk on boxing day.
That way they get to see both of us and can open presents at both. I think we should also share details of any Christmas activities that we would like to take them to while they are off school and we can agree which activities we will go to.
Re: your request for New year's, I do have plans and would like to keep my invite I'm aware that you had also entered into the cosi app dates for the 15th and 16th of December? If your plans stand on those days I am happy to have the kids then.
We can then ensure the schedule alternates for next year.
Regards J
(While I'm writing this draft I get another request via the co parenting app for New year's. Its clear to me her GALavanting and going out comes as a priority)
Welcome all and advice or input, finding it quite a struggle to just be assertive and hold my ground (Maybe to be seen as a 180 for me lol)
