Yes I had a lot of venom. She loses control sometimes. I’m proud I took the high road though. I get angry though when a man picks on a woman or swears at them so I apologise if I seem harsh or critical of your H.
Taking time in responding is definitely a good plan and very much advocated here. The emotional turmoil inside should never be displayed on the exterior.
Does your relationship program dovetail with the principles here? I find the advice here to be far more practical and at the pointy edge than some of these courses which can be more philosophical and generic.
Thanks I’m planning on a body bash in the surf this weekend after a shop for some new boardies. One of my secret GAL passions is shopping for stuff for me and my home! T k max is my go to haha!
Hope you and your son have a good one too and sending positive thoughts and vibes that your H will be calm and respectful.
Cheers DS
Me: early 40's XW: nearly 50 T: 15 M: 5 BD: Jan 19 S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24
