So glad to hear that you are really stepping up your GAL . No more hermit !! Not only is this great for you but W is noticing and trying to pull you back in .
Another stander is right she has you on the hook as plan B. It is hard to apply the advise you get but you can do this . Look how far you have come . You are getting a lot of the techniques down and seeing they work .
Most of us here understand the overwhelming feeling to want to help them or see our spouses . It’s hard to pull away but she needs to feel she has lost you in order to really want it back .