Originally Posted by LovingIt
Is this a small or large company?

If it's a direct manager - employee relationship, why don't you expose them at work? Most places that's a fireable offense due to conflict of interest.

I mean it might hurt you and the family too, since he will be without a job.


Large company. Several of his other employees are aware of the affair. I'm good friends with one of them. They have been considering reporting it to the internal tip line because of the blatant favouritism and special treatment OW has been receiving from H as her manager.

I don't know. I feel like exposing it is the nuclear option? I was considering telling him that I know and giving him the chance to come clean to our parents and his workplace. But that feels dirty, like blackmail.


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