Unfortunately in these situations things have to get worse before they get better. Don’t bother bagging p the clothes if she doesn’t live there anymore.
It’s interesting how you’re classifying it as an EA when they live together.
Thanks for your input LH.
I use EA/PA/A interchangeably... I guess I was thinking "extramarital affair", but I suppose the board probably uses it as "emotional affair". I'll make a note of that in the future.