How much do you know about the distance/ pursuit cycle? If you don't know about it, Google it. You're distancing, she's pursuing. The worst thing you can do right now is to start pursuing her. Don't make her soup, don't hug her, don't let her kiss you. I know it seems counter-intuitive but for now she's just trying to keep you on the hook as Plan B. She will never learn to miss you if you keep letting her engage you like this. You need to go dark on her. She still has a long journey ahead before she might hit bottom and realize what she's losing. She's just playing games for now. You're doing pretty well with DB'ing and it's working, but you're still letting her pull you back in!
