i was a chronic alcoholic for the 1st 9 years of our relationship until my wife sought help and identified me as an emotional abuser.this was devastating for me to acknowledge but I accept it as true and caused her great suffering and neglect.
I mean, I hope you accepted this narrative as true because it was true. I hope you've not been agreeing for years that you were emotionally abusive just to appease her. If there has been truth behind this claim, being one of the few to actually seek treatment and complete a program would be brilliant. If DB is all about making 180s to improve our lives, this would be one heck of a change to follow-through on!
