Just updating

Met at the school with wife and s12.
Off the bat could tell she was uncomfortable, I was friendly without over doing it, said hi and she actually acknowledged it.
Kept focused on Pma with s12, while we sat and waited to meet his mentor, she made a point of getting up and looking at bumf on the walls.
Meeting with mentor went really well.

Positive feedback for son and we were both able to engage with son and mentor in a positive way.

Both expressed our pride in him.

I offered lunch to celebrate son's progress.

She agreed, and offered to drive and drive me back to the school after to pick up my bike.

Although she declined my offer to pay for her lunch

Lunch went pretty well, without reading too much into it, we were both able to be on the same page with Son,

Able to have an amicable discussion about business and she engaged with me and was able to look me in the eyes several times without it feeling awkward.

Again, carefull not to read too much into it, but feel I was able to maintain a Pma without any pressure, pursuing or mention of us.

She drove me back to get my bike, said bye to my son and that was that.

Weirdly did overtake them afterwards on my bike, seemed to tickle my son.

Last edited by Jdevast; 11/20/19 02:51 PM.

Bd August 2019 after 16years
S 12
D 6