No advice really just empathy D. Days like today I'm overwhelmed with regrets for my failings, I also feel my wife just got to the point where her enablers voices got stronger and stronger, grass looked greener and greener and I could be seen as nothing positive and a burden. I also recognise that she is too far down the road, she would lose face with her new friends ( enablers) She actually mentioned after having a good family day and sharing wine, her new friend came over. Next day she was like "it's all too confusing, what will my friends think?" So I feel stuck in this stage of her wanting nothing to do with me.
Like I said no advice to give man, just feeling where you are.
