Talista, He called yesterday and I let S answer the phone. After he talked to S he wanted me(the previous day I told him I would call him back and never did). He said, HOw do you feel about him having a motor scooter? I said I told him to ask you if it is ok. This is your decision. He said, what do think? I said I think you will make a good decision. This was a 180 for me. I was always accused of never letting him make decisions regarding S.

Then he said, S said you are getting him a cell phone. I said, yes. He said, you don't need another bill. I said, I was going to get him a prepaid phone. He, said, what happens when the minutes run out? I said, we get more. He said, well, I don't think you need another bill. I said, Ok then I will just get the scooter. He said, get it if you want him to have it. I said, You say scooter, Scooter it is. Would you like to talk to S about your decision? I got off the phone. I always get off 1st.

S said, he went into this long thing about if you don't keep the front of the house neat, empty the trash, and keep your room clean , your not riding it. He is more in tune now about what is going on in the home than when he lived there!

He said, he is coming to mow the lawn today. A couple of weeks ago he was telling me to hire someone to do it????????So confused. He is all over the place.

I gotta get better at validating.

Nitaf