But I can say that I am happy. Which is awesome. My happiness is not tied to her.
What is your happiness tied to? Others here are struggling, they are reading your thread, and may be able to gain some insight from you.
my happiness is not tied to anything. I wake up in the morning and DECIDE to be happy. If I’m really not feelin it I’ll put on some music that makes me feel up beat. It comes from inside happiness.
There is some cheesy quote that i really took to heart a while back. “Happiness is the journey, not the destination”.
I think finding happiness is looking inward and seeing yourself as a complete person who doesn’t need anybody to survive.