Before my trip Oct 31-Nov 14 we had agreed to meet with our lawyers. I didn't hear anything back from her L until I reached out to my L today. Her L confirmed the date on Nov 7th but my L forgot to tell me. After I got back, as noted above, my W has been more open and seems to be more on the fence again as it relates to divorce.
So...I called my W today and told her I just heard back from my L about the date being scheduled. I said "is this what you want to do? Based on the last few days and what we've discussed I wasn't sure if this still makes sense at this moment".
Her response: "Yeah my L reached out when I was away and I was just like ok I guess that date works. But I've noticed that my feelings are changing and I'm feeling more like myself and although I don't want you to be hopeful I don't think right now is the best time to do this as it seems so final.I feel like I need more time to sort through my feelings and work on myself".
Any thoughts or advice on this?
I do agree with her and it's what I was thinking too. Should I be concerned that she doesn't want me to be hopeful or does that just make sense given what's happened?
H 37 W 31 S 2
T: 7 M: 4
BD 12/18 Separated 2/19 Living back together 04/06/2019 W Moved out again 07/15/2019
