My H has always been a little insecure and I can remember 6 years ago when I staarted this job that he hated the R I had with a male supervisor. I use to mention everthing we did to amke him comfortable. Our team consist of 4 woman and 1 man. He is married. He is anice guy. HE is now way near my type. I even invited him and w to a beef and beer that MIL had. My H was very rude. He wouldn't even talk to them. My co-worker would call me and ask me work related questions or if I were out to give me an update. We laugh a little but that is it. I also call his house. His wife is very polite. My h went ballistic saying that he knows the mann is only being nice beacause he want s me and I am to stop all contact. Well' we have been co-workers/friends for 6 years and we have no interest in each other. I thought it was stupid and embarassing to say don't call H is jealous???????????? Well, H had been gone about 2 mos and checked cell ,saw his # and said, youare still doing what I asked you not to do!!!!!!!!!! All the while I am sayiing this is so foolish. Then I put myself in his shoes. Would I want im having a R like that? Would I feel safe? I immediately realized that his feelings of insecurity all though unfounded should have been validated and addressed. This all in hindsight. I immediately told co-worker do not call for any reason. I should have done it sonner but I really didn't see it as a big deal.He told my bestfriend after he left that he hates the guy on my job and I couldn't see alterior motive! She assured him it was nothing but a work R because she has met me for lunch and he has accompanied us. He said, he was smiling in his face and trying to screw his wife. That man is so happy at home if I walked naked in front of him, he would probably say excuse me, I can't see the TV!!LOL
I did learn that i should not have those tyes of R's because it opens up doors for temptation, but none was jumping off with us. But I do see how we are all wired for affairs and we should never say never, but dude is just like not attractive an anyway to me!!!!!!!!!!
This is the part that irks me though. He was making such a big deal out of that but when I accessed his cell bill, he was talking to a woman all along, not to mention she is the woman who's number is foremost on cell bill now. Why does he hold me to higher standards than he holds himself?
