Actually nothing has been agreed other than I take my name's off the bills at the house, Initially we were going to sit down and go through them together until the last few weeks where she is completely walls up, distrustful and behaves like I am a threat to her.
Plenty of messages from her about Xmas lunch this evening.
Told her everywhere is pretty booked up, one spot at a carvery, Łxyz a head.
Her: what! I'm not paying that for a carvery!
I made a joke: " but includes complimentary crackers"
Her: I guess we would be paying for people to work Xmas day.
Me: yes, double time at least.
No further responses, not sure I should have made a joke or not in this situation.
Going to wait for her to come back to me.
Personally I just wish we could find a way to have Xmas lunch together with the kids. Pretty sure she's not having that though.
